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Chapter XII


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ADHYAAY XII

BHAKTI YOGAM

Introduction

The chapter starts with a question posed by Arjuna.  It is a basic question and the whole chapter, ‘Bhakti Yog’ is in answer to that question.  Bhakti, Bhakta are terms well known to us.  Shri Krishna gives an entirely different view.  The difference is owing to vision.  Our vision is superficial.  We look at the more obvious exterior and form our view on devotion and devotee.  Shri Krishna refuses to be carried away by the superficial glitter and looks deeper inside.  He looks at the ‘Bhavana’ and takes that as the basis for Bhakti.

What is Bhakti?  Who is a Bhakta?  Decorating neck with ‘Rudraksha’?  The one with more rudraksha beads is a greater Bhakta.  The one with marks of Vibhooti or Chandan on forehead is a Bhakta.  His ‘bhakti’ grows with more and more marks, marks on arms, marks on the chest, etc.  Visiting temples and spending time in Pooja or worship is bhakti.  The bhakti is more intense with more and more time spent in temples and worship.  Our yardsticks are all outward and gross.

Devotion is personal and not for discussion or measuring.  This need not be shared with others.  Similarly, it is none of our business to assess others’ bhakti.  Not just Bhakti, other aspects like wealth, earnings, progress, character, pain and pleasures etc. of others also are not for us to discuss and assess.  This will not benefit us in any way, except satiate our thirst for gossiping.  This will not help in our emancipation.  On the other hand, will ensure our fall.  Shri Krishna’s explanation of Bhakti aims at our emancipation.

Various characteristics or attributes were discussed while explaining a Gyaani, a Karma Yogi or a meditative person.  Similar qualities are mentioned by Shri Krishna even while explaining Bhakti.  This is only an emphatic assertion that the paths may vary, but the goal to be reached is one.

Shri Krishna had said in the 21st shloka of 9th chapter that ‘Bhavana’ is more important than the offerings made by a devotee.  Bhakti Yog is an elaboration of ‘Bhavana’ mentioned then.  Come On!  Let us enter the chapter and relish Shri Krishna’s commentary on Bhakti in response to Arjuna’s query...
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अर्जुन उवाच -
एवं सततयुक्ता ये भक्तास्त्वां पर्युपासते ।
ये चाप्यक्षरमव्यक्तं तेषां के योगवित्तमाः ॥ १ ॥

Arjuna said:  Those devotees who ever-steadfast thus worship Thee, and those also who worship the Imperishable, the Unmanifested, - which of them are better versed in Yog?
(XII - 1)

Comparison, differentiation and catagorization as higher and lower, desire to possess the ‘higher’ and reject the ‘lower’ and gloating over own possession feed and boost human ego.  The comparison here is not of virtue with vice or good with bad.  Man tends to compare and catagorize virtue as greater virtue and lesser virtue; sin as lesser sin and more heinous sin.  Arjuna’s query reflects this very human attitude.

There are numerous ways of Worship, but all these can be classified under two heads; worship through an object and worship of the Formless, abstract.  The former one is ‘Meditating on the form and attributes of a Form and attaining Divinity’ through such effort.  Heart has a prominent role in this.  Shraddha or absolute faith is the basis.  Intellectual faculties like Logic, discretion have no role here.  Music, dance, decoration and other art forms, have their inevitable part in this.  Senses The worship is through the senses, sight, taste, sound scent etc.  The best ever objects enjoyed by the senses are dedicated to the Divine, in this way of worship.

The later type is worship of the One who is everywhere, but unmanifested; who is the cause for every effect, but is beyond everything; That which is The Formless, without any attributes; That which is in and beyond all.  Though it is called Brahma, It is beyond names, as name is also a form, a subtler one rather.  Here, the journey is beyond the snses.  Taste, sound, decoration, scent, music, dance and other art frms have no role.  Viveka or discretion is the dominant faculty in use.  In worldly terms, this type is a dry, tasteless, odourless, emotionless path.

Which one of these two paths is Greater?  This seems to be Arjuna’s question.

Islam, Christianity, Buddhism, Jainism etc. propogated the second path.  But, all these religions, in due course, drifted to the former one, worship of a Form.  Islam has been a firm and obstinate opposer of Forms.  We know incidents, wherein an artist who portrayed the Prophet was condemned to death.  The followers of Islam have indulged in breaking of idols and demolition of temples and churches world over.  Destruction of the huge Buddha Idol in Afghanistan too recent an incident to be forgotten.  But, the whole foundation of Islam is worship of the stone in Kaaba.  Hundreds of Dargahs have sprung up in Bharat and are being worshipped by the Muslims.  Processions of Chariots and Urs are common features in Islam today.  The state of Christian, Bouddha and Jain religions are no better.  Idols of the founders of these religions, who talked of a Formless and abstract God, are being worshipped by the followers.  The worship of The Formless is highly individualistic and strictly personal.  When it is organized and institutionalized, it gets transformed into idolatory.

The Upanishads talk of Brahma Upasana or ‘Worship of the Formless’.  At the same time, one finds the largest number and greatest variety of Idols in Hindu Dharma.  Worship of God through Idols or Forms is simpler, artistic, and pleasant.  It is emotional.  Music, drums, conches, dance, flowers, garlands, chandan and other pleasant scents, all find place in this.  There is festivity, enthusiasm and fun in various festivals and procession of chariots and decorated Idols and hence can easily attract huge crowds.  Christianity and Islam, having failed in converting the Hindus with all their governmental pressures and military might, resort to these asects of Idolatory to dupe and trap the innocent Hindus in their religeous nets.  They wanted to change the people, but have changed themselves.  They condemned and rediculed Idolatory of the Hindus, but had to helplessly accept Idolotary practices.

On the other hand, We, the Hindus realize Brahma.  The Upanishads talk of Brahma, but, never condemn Idols.  We know the importance of Idols.  There is a beautiful confluence of worship of the Form and the Formless.  We worship the Formless, Omnipresent, Omnipotent and Omniscient Brahma through a Form.  Forms may vary, but the God being worshipped is One.  “Truth is One, but is called in various names” declared our ancestors.  That is why we have, in Hindu system of worship, ‘Prana Pratishta’, literally meaning ‘infusing life in a stone, wherein stone statues are converted into Deiva Vigraham by invoking God in those;  ‘Aavahanam’, meaning welcoming God into the form we created, wherein God is invoked in shapes moulded out of Cow-dung, turmeric paste or clay;  ‘Visarjanam’ meaning ‘dissolution, wherein the form is immersed in water and dissolved after asking God to leave the form.  We do not worship the Form, but, worship God through these forms.  Form is only is an indicator and is meant to direct us to God.  If I am to help you see a star in the vast sky, I’ll point my finger towards the star and ask you to look at my finger and then look to the sky star.  The Idol has significance similar to the index finger.  We worship the Formless through the Form.  The Hindus have no confusion in this regard.  Bharateeya history in the last thousand years is a strong evidence.  Our temples were rezed to ground, Idols disfigured and dishonoured by the brutal Islamic attacks.  At no point, the Hindus felt helpless and have lost their God.  Hindu Dharma stayed alive and could not be wiped out, despite loss all Forms and Idols.  Worship of the Form and the Formless are beautifully intertwined in Hindu philosophy.  These are complimentory to each other.

There is a clarifying incident in Swami Vivekananda’s life during his Parivrajaka life.  He was a royal guest of the king of Alwar in Rajasthan, during the years he roamed around Bharat penniless as a Parivrajaka.  The king, influenced by modern, revolutionary thoughts, did not believe in Idol worship.  He used to condemn the practice in harsh terms.  Swami Vivekananda tried his best to convince him of the significance of Idols, but to no avail.  The king was blind in arguements.  Swamiji stopped discussion.  After a while, he asked the minister to take out a picture of the king’s father, hanging on the wall.  The minister brought the picture and placed it on the table.  Swamiji asked the minister to spit on the picture.  The minister and the king were shocked at this rude behaviour of a noble guest.  The king was enraged, but controlled his anger and asked, “Why do you do this?  This is my father.”  “Is this your father?  I thought this to be a mere piece of paper.”  “Of course, it is a piece of paper.  But it has a picture of my father.  I regard this as my father.  Any insult to this will be regarded as an insult to my father.”  “Yes.  I also spoke the same.  You have drawn your father’s picture on a piece of paper and regard it as your father.  You honour it with garlands and lamps.  You consider an insult to this piece of paper as dishonour to your father and are annoyed.  If you a king, well educated and a speaker of language of reform can do this why not a common Hindu regard a stone as God?  Is it so severe a crime deserving criticism and condemnation?”  The king was speechless.

Arjuna had related with Shri Krishna as a friend.  He was also aware that Shri Krishna was God Himself in human form.  He had also ‘seen’ His Cosmic manifestation, beyond all forms.  Now, he was confused whether to worship the Paramatman in his present human form or as Brahman experienced by him in Virat Darshan.  That is his question to Shri Krishna.
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श्री भगवानुवाच -
मय्यावेश्य मनो ये मां नित्ययुक्ता उपासते ।
श्रद्धया परयोपेतास्ते मे युक्ततमा मताः ॥ २ ॥

Shree Bhagawaan said:  Those who, fixing their mind on Me, worship Me, ever-steadfast, and endowed with supreme Shraddhaa, they in My opinion are the best versed in Yog.
(XII - 2)

Pat came Shri Krishna’s reply, without any hesitation.  Bhakti is higher.  The Yog of a Bhakta is greater.  He had said this a few times earlier too.  He was catagorical in the 47th shlokam of Chapter VI.  “The greatest Yogi, the most steadfast Yogi is the one who with the inner self merged in Me, devotes himself to Me with Shraddha.”  But, that came in a flow, without Arjuna seeking it and hence he did not catch it.  This is a usual weakness of a listener.  The listener listens only to that lurking in his mind, only that he wants to.  (There is an opinion that we listen only that which is already agreed to by us.)  He tends to recieve the answer to his own doubts and is not interested in anything else.  Listening should be unprejudiced and without any prior conceptions.

The battle of Kurukshetra was over.  Yudhishttira had been annointed as a king.  Arjuna said to Shri Krishna, “You told me Gita on the battlefield.  I could not grasp due to the excited, tense atmosphere there.  Now, it is peaceful.  My mind is calmer.  Will you please give me Gita once more?”  Shri Krishna replied, “Arjuna, I was in a unique mental state then and The Gita sprang out of Me.  Sorry.  I may not be able to repeat the same.”  Moreover, The Mahabharatha uses the term ‘Shri Vasudeva uvacha’ or Shri Krishna Uvacha’ whenever Shri Krishna talked.  However, it is ‘Shri Bhagawan uvacha’ in The Gita.  The ‘Me’ or ‘I’ used by Him in The Gita does not indicate the individual Shri Vasudeva, but the The Brahma or Paramaatman.  He told The Gita, rather The Gita flowed out when Shri Krishna was in state of total union with the Brahman.

The ‘Me’ is firmly rooted in a Gyaani and has to be vanquished after sustaind effort.  In case of a Bhakta, ‘Me’ melts away in the Love and total surrender to The Lord.  Not just in Bhakti, total Love has this potential even in other fields.  Once Shri Ram Manohar Lohia went to meet Albert Einstein.  He had to wait for more than six hours.  Einstein’s wife sought repeated apologies.  Shri Lohia had no other option and had to wait.  Einstein was deeply passionate about Mathematics.  He would completely forget self whenever a mathematical puzzle appeared before him.  The world will be lost.  Wife, food and other worldly matters will be lost for him.  In fact, he, as Einstein was also lost in that state.  Einstein was in his bath tub then and in a similar state.  Everything returns to normalcy only if and when the puzzle is solved.  He came out of the bath and was in an excited, Joyous state.  That is the unique strength of Love.

During the days of my intense Sangh work, Sangh was the only thought filled in my mind.  Every other thought was Sangh-centered.  The one who is filled with ‘money’ looks for and sees only money everywhere.  The one filled with Shri Krishna sees nothing else but Shri Krishna everywhere in this world.  The other things are non-entity for him.  Sun-rising in the horizon is Shri Krishna.  A bird chirping is Shri Krishna.  A child’s beautiful face, a flower blooming, a mountain, a river, even a snake and scorpion are all Shri Krishna for him.  Round the clock chanting of ‘Krishna’ ‘Krishna’ by him is mere outer manifestation of this state within.
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ये त्वक्षरमनिर्देश्यमव्यक्तं पर्युपासते ।
सर्वत्रगमचिन्त्यं च कूतस्थमचलं ध्रुवम् ॥ ३ ॥
सन्नियम्येन्द्रियग्रामं सर्वत्र समबुद्धयः ।
ते प्राप्नुवन्ति मामेव सर्वभूतहिते रताः ॥ ४ ॥

But those also, who worship the Imperishable, the Indefinable, the Unmanifested, the Omnipresent, the Unthinkable, the Unchangeable, the Immovable, the Eternal, - having subdued all the senses, even-minded everywhere, engaged in the welfare of all beings, - verily, they reach only Myself.
(XII – 3, 4)

The terms used by Shri Krishna to explain the Formless, Brahman have been repeatedly used in The Veda-Upanishads, Brahma Sutra, Shankara Bhashya and in Gita too elsewhere.  Let us see those one by one.

Aksharam:  Indestructible.  Whole.  Eternal.

Anirdeshyam:  That which can not be pointed to as this or this.  Adya Shankara eliminates all the known and says ‘not this’, ‘not this’, while describing Brahman.

Avyaktham:  Unmanifested.  Inspite of ‘presence’ in each micro particle in this creation, It is unmanifested.  Creation is manifestation of Prakruti.

Sarvatragam:  Omnipresent.  Exists in every atom of this creation.  There is not a single particle without It.

Achintyam:  Beyond thought and description.  The eyes can see objects, but not the mind.  Mind can observe the senses but not the Buddhi or Intellect.  The Intellect can think and observe the wanderings of mind and the functioning of the senses but not the One who is behind all these.

Kootastham:  Changeless.  Beyond deformity and destruction.  ‘Koota’ is the metallic mould used for moulding and shaping weapons, ornaments and other metallic articles.  The mould is not deformed even while it is continuously being used in shaping the articles being moulded.  The Brahman, though the cause for generation and dissolution of so many types of lives is itself beyond birth, change and death.

Achalam:  Non-moving.  No change in regard to position.  Prkriti is chalam and Brahman is Achalam.

Dhruvam:  Firm.  Stable.  This is the only positive term while all the other terms are negatives.

Worship of Niraakaara or the Formless has been mentioned elsewhere also by Shri Krishna.  ‘Shraddhaavaan Labhatae Gyaanam’ (IV - 39);  ‘Labhantae Brahma Nirvaanam’ (V - 24);  ‘Naiva Kurvanna Kaarayan’ (V - 13);  ‘Aatma Samstham Manah Krutvaa’ (VI - 25);  ‘Yadaksharam Veda Vido Vadanthi’ (VIII - 11);  ‘Om Ityeka Aksharam Brahma’ (VIII - 13);  ‘Gyaana Yagyena Chaapyanye Yajantho Maamupaasathe’ (IX - 15); are a few shlokams where Nirguna Niraakara Upaasanaa has been gloriously mentioned by Shri Krishna.

Gita is not a piece of oratory, nor a poem or an essay.  It is a Samvaadam or a conversation.  Hopping from one point to another is inevitable in a conversation.  The speaker reads the mind of the listener and answers questions arising in his mind, though unexpressed.  Shri Krishna had said in the previous shlokam that Saguna Upaasanaa or worship of the Form is best.  “What about Gyaani and Nirguna Niraakaara Upaasanaa?”  Shri Krishna must have read this obvious question springing up in Arjuna’s mind.  These two Shlokams have come as answer to this possible query in Arjuna’s mind.

Here He mentions the basic conditions in this path.  Restrain and mastery over senses;  Equipised mind; Seeking well-being of all lives.  Control over senses is the first and foremost condition in Gyaana Yog and Karma Yog also.  One can not sit still, eyes closed, even for a minute, with senses unrestrained.  The mind running helter-skelter chasing the senses can not be firm and focussed.  And, to focus it on a Formless, abstract concept is impossible.  (It is different in the path of Bhakti.  Here, the senses are considered His and surrendered to Him.  Hence, control over those does not arise.)

Taking anything that comes in life with the same attitude is equipised state.  If there is no desire, if there is no demand, if there is no pre-condition, the remains the same in all situations arising in life.  In fact, there is no mind at all in that state.  The mind is verily decimated (Mano-nasham).  In this state, the senses are automatically controlled.  The senses roam around only so long as the there are likes, dislikes and demands.

Sarva Bhootha Hitae Rataah:  This is an inevitable final step in this path and is essentioal for fading away of ‘Me’.  A gyaani without this aspect is emotionless and inert and is verily,a stone.  Shri Krishna assures that the one on this path also reaches Me.
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क्ल्शोsधिकतरस्तेषामव्यक्तासक्तचेतसाम् ।
अव्यक्ता हि गतिर्दुःखं देहविद्भिरवाप्यते ॥ ५ ॥

Greater is their trouble whose minds are set on the Unmanifested;  for the goal of the Unmanifested is very hard for the embodied to reach.
(XII - 5)

If a particular star is to be pointed out of thousands of stars scattered in the sky, then a referrance like a finger tip or a tree top has to be used.  The regerrance shoukd point to the star and the seeker should also look for the star through the referrance.  If he stops with the referrance, then he can not see the star.  At the same time, he can neither see the star directly, without the referrance.  A star is a cognizable object.  If it is difficult to see it without a referrance, then how difficult should it be to cognize or grasp an abstract concept, without a referrance?  For instance, how do we know music?  We must listen and experience it or symbols like ¯, , ♪♪ or sa, re, ga ma etc have to be used to read it.  Our physical senses have to be used in both the ways.  We find so many symbols being used around us.  A danger warning is knowing by a ‘skull’ (N);  love is symbolized by a heart (Y);  A slant Z is drawn to indicate electricity (~).  These symbols are only to know and understand the abstract ideas.  Remove these symbols and try to know the subjects indicated.  We’ll realize how difficult it is to an abstract without a form.

It is very difficult to focus the mind on the unmanifested Brahman and know It through meditation.  Man is with a form.  He has senses to know the manifested objects in this world.  He has to perform so many actions for the basic physical needs.  The physical body reminds him of its existance, almost every second minute.  It is very difficult for him to rise above physical awareness.  There was a great thinker, Pandit Deendayal Upadhyaya by name.  He was an RSS Pracharak and had conceived a great political thought (Ekatma Maanava Vaada).  Once, he asked a small boy in host family to touch him.  The boy touched his hand.  He said, “you only touched my hand and not me.”  The boy touched him on his head.  He said, “you touched my head and not me.”  This went on for a few times.  The boy seemed annoyed and went away.  He was involved in discussion with the elders in the family.  After a while, the boy came and gave Deendayalji a shrp slap on his back.  This was sudden and unanticipated.  Shri Deendayalji cried out.  Then he turned to the boy and asked, “Why did you slap me?”  Pat replied the boy, “Me?  I did not slap you.  My hand slapped your back.”  Deendayalji was speechless.  Awareness of the physical self is very strong.  Added to this is the deep pride in physical self.  The skin, hair, eyes, the face, fingers, the waist, the structure, hight, weight, the voice, almost any petty thing in the body may give birth to pride.  Dehabhiman or this pride has to destroyed and then body-consciousness has to be eliminated.  Not impossible, but next to impossible.  There have been a few who have achieved this.

A Sadhu by name Shri Tiwariji lived around Nagpur in the last century.  He used to get lost in deep meditation without any prior indication.  He would completely lose his ‘body consciousness’ in that state.  In that state, the onus of protecting his body from insect bites and other animal attacks was on his disciples.  They would take turn to remain awake and feed his body, clean up his body and protect.

Saguna – Saakaara Upaasanaa or the worship of Form is not easier either.  However, the senses are not denied as these are involved in worship.  These are not deprived of their ‘food’ and are fed with objects soaked in Divinity.  The Idol adorned beautifully is a feast to the eyes.  The pleasant smelling flowers and pastes are feast to the nose.  Prasad recieved after being offered to Him is feast to the tongue.  The ears enjoy on the feast of listening to His glory.  Singing His glory is the feast for the speech.  This way, harsh struggle trying to retrain the senses totally avoided.
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ये तु सर्वाणी कर्माणि मयि सन्न्यस्य मत्पराः ।
अनेन्येनैव योगेन मां ध्यायन्त उपासते ॥ ६ ॥
तेषामहं समुद्धर्ता मृत्युसंसारसागरात् ।
भवामि नचिरात्पार्थ मय्यावेशितचेतसाम् ॥ ७ ॥

But those who worship Me, resigning all actions in Me, regarding Me as the Supreme Goal, meditating on Me with single-minded Yog, - to these whose mind is set on Me, verily, I become ere long, the Saviour out of the ocean of the mortal Samsaara.
(XII – 6, 7)

Here, He mentions three basic conditions in Saakaara Upaasanaa.

Samarppanam:  Total reliance on Me.  Resigning everything unto Me.  It is tough to be reliant on someone else, to surrender to him.  Man surrenders when he is helpless.  His ego does not permit him to live relying on others.  A child walks holding parents’s hand for a very short, inevitable period.  It takes the first opportunity to leave their hands, walk on its own and declare to the world that he is not relying on them.  The eagerness to announce to them that, ‘I am independent, on my own and no more reliant on you’ is the cause for cold war in homes between the parents and children.  Even a ripe old man dislikes being given a helping hand.  He likes to indicate that ‘I am not so old yet’.  ‘I achieve through my own effort, my own talent, and my own intelligence’.  This is the usual feeling of men and this a grand feast to Ego.  Total raliance only on God is the first and foremost condition for Bhakti.  No protest and no demands.  Ever contented and ever Blissful is a Bhakta.

Ananya Bhavam: (Only this.  Nothing else).  We are habituated to looking ‘elsewhere’ for something else.  Be in a vehicle and look with envy at other vehicles passing by;  eating from a plate and looking at another’s plate;  live in a house built out of life long sweat and sigh at other ‘more beautiful’ houses;  riding with husband with hand on his shoulder and looking at other men passing by;  We are used to anya bhava.  ‘Only this and nothing else’ is Ananya Bhavam.  This is an expression of Love.  This need not be compared with the semetic idea of Christianity or Islam.  ‘Jesus is the only God’ or Ya ilaahaa Illalla’ are slogans of religions for converting others.  Ananya bhavam is the conviction or mindset of a devotee.  ‘For me, there is only one and that is my husband’.  This is an expression of love.  You will call it nonsense, if someone says, everyone should accept my husband as theirs.  Shri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa was a Kali devotee.  He did not initiate his dearest disciple, Swami Vivekananda to Kali worship.

Dedicating all actions to Me: When he has dedicated himself to Me, his actions will obviously be dedicated to Me.  He works for self, who considers his own, the instruments like the body, the senses, mind and Buddhi, the acquisitions like wealth, position, fame, etc.  These are not ‘mine’.  These have been entrusted by Him, to me for working in the welfare of the world.  This attitude facilitates dedication and surrender of actions to Him.  Three different words have been used in The Gita in this context.  The actions, while being performed and after completion, offered to the God are ‘Madarppana Karma’.  The attachment with fruits disappear when the actions are dedicated to Him.  Actions performed for Him and for uniting with Him are ‘Madarttha Karma’.  Actions performed with the conviction that all the actions are His, are ‘Matkarma’.  These actions do not bind.

‘I reach such a Bhakta across the ocean of mortal samsaara’ says Shri Krishna.  He calls the world ‘a world of death’.  Death is the only certainty here.  Every life appearing here is being swallowed continuously by the crater by death.  But, the Bhakta is saved from death.  Where is death for one who has demolished self?  He has no desires or dislikes or contempt.  He has no demands.  He has no plans and tasks.  He has surrendered to Me and nothing remains of him.  The one who is ready to lose all gets everything.  He has lost everything, including self, in Me and hence I rescue from the mortal world of death, says Shri Krishna.
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मय्येव मन आधत्स्व मयि बुद्धिं निवेशय ।
निवसिष्यसि मय्येव अत ऊर्ध्वं न संशयः ॥ ८ ॥

Fix thy mind on Me only, place thy intellectin Me;  then thou shall no doubt live in Me hereafter.
(XII - 8)

The greatest challange before the mind are ‘Unstability’ and ‘constant chase’ behind the senses for fulfillment of desires.  To doubt and question are those before the Buddhi.  Shraddha and Love are twin solutions to these challanges.  The one who rests in the Paramaatman is the one who steadies mind and Buddhi, with the help of these two assistants, Shraddha and Love.  Such Sadhu devotees do not reach the Heavens.  The place where they stay is verily, Heaven.  This is because he rests in God.  He is ever in Dvinity.  Kabirdas has said, “In the earlier stage, I chased and roamed everywhere for Him.  Later, it is Him that calls and chases me, wherever I go.”

The mind is unstable and wavering.  It is involved in never-exhausting chase behind desires.  It joins hands with the senses to fulfil all its desires.  If a thing in momentum is to calm down and stabilize, it must hold something which is firm, unmoving and stable.  Worldly materials are unstable, ever-changing and destructible.  The mind can never stabilize so long as it is involved in worldly activities.  It must detach from the worldly affairs and anchor on the thoughts of the Lord for that.  Mind strays to thoughts of the world, relations, experiences, money transactions, etc. while attempting to meditate on Him, gets disturbed itself and disturbs the Divine effort too.  The remedy for this is to remove world from the mind.  If we involve in worldly activities with mind on Him, if we consider these as His tasks and do these for Him, if we take anything that comes as His Grace and detach self from the results of these activities, world will not stick in the mind.  As these were never registered, the thoughts of world cease to disturb.

The Buddhi indulges in unworthy logic and doubts and helps in firmer establishment of Ahankara.  The long rope tied to to its neck hanged down when the elephant walked.  A rat held the loose end of the rope in its mouth and walked ahead.  ‘I am pulling this elephant.  If I give up, the poor elephant will collapse’, bragged the rat to its relatives and friends peeping out of their holes.  The logic of Buddhi, is such in most cases.  ‘I am doing.  I am responsible.  If I leave, everything will collapse’, suggests the Buddhi and the Ahankara is convinced.  Blossoming of Love and Shraddha and surrender to Him becomes  difficult.  The logics of Buddhi are shattered when Shraddha wakes up.  Shraddha-yukta Buddhi should stabilize on The Paramaatman.  With mind and Buddhi steadying on Him, the Bhakta is ever in the company of the God.
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अथ चित्तं समाधातुं न शक्नोषि मयि स्थिरम् ।
अभ्यासयोगेन ततो मामिच्छाप्तुं धनञ्जय ॥ ९ ॥

Oh Dhananjaya!  If thou are unable to fix thy mind steadily on Me, then by Abhyasa-Yog, do thou seek to reach Me.
(XII - 9)

Bhakti is dedication of mind and Buddhi filled with Love and Shraddha.  If that is not possible, take up Abhyasa-Yog.  This has been detailed in the sixth chapter.  Abhyasa is ‘practise’.  Yog means ‘equipoise’.  If practise is adopted in the absence of Samatva, the resultant powers have to be worldly.  Desires to gain woman, children, fame, wealth, assets, disease-free life, etc. will develop as result of such practise.  As described in 41st shlokam of chapter II, such a Buddhi will be multi-branched.  His actions will be directed at so many desires and hence scattered.  If practise is coupled with a single, firm purpose of Union with Divinity, the other desires and sankalpa vanish and Yog is attained.

He said, “Surrender mind and Buddhi unto Me” in the previous verse.  “If not, resort to Yog,” says He here.  He once again emphasizes that there are many paths to Paramaatman.  Even, in Yog there can be so many systems of practice.  Naama-Japa, Bhajan-Keerthan, Hatha-Yog, Pranayam, Dhyana-Dharana, etc.  Again there are so many ways in Dhyana;  meditation on a Form, a sound, thoughts, nose-tip, center of eyebrows, etc.  Practice may be anything, result should be purification or ennobling of mind.  The purified mind must attain balance in worldly matters.  It should be same whether things are got or lost.  Desire to attain Him is intensified in that state.  The mind saddens and suffers every passing moment at not finding Him.  Such a suffering extinguishes every desire, Sankalpa and attachment.

There is absolutely no gap between us and the Paramaatman.  He is nearest to us.  We are turned away from Him.  “Let us seek and earn the worldly wealth and comforts now.  We’ll think of Him later”.  So goes our thinking.  We are ‘separated and away’ from Him merely because we are plunged in worldly matters.  Moreover, we are not even pained at this saparation.  The moment this pain emerges, world will disappear within us.  Thirst to get Him will appear and grow.  Shri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa spent many years in this state.  He used to suffer and cry, as if he was in critical pain.  His restlessness would multiply with each new morning.  ‘One more day has passed and I have not been blessed by her Darshan’.  He wanted to see Her in ‘this life with these very eyes’.

A Guru becomes essntial in this regard.  The Pandavas suffered from early childhood days.  The tribulations continued unabated.  They were invited to Varanavadh (Varanasi) and made to stay in Laaksha Gruh (a house made of lac, jute, bamboos and other combustible materials).  Duryodhana had planned to torch the house in the night while Pandavas were asleep.  Pandavas escaped death due to the help of affectionate uncle Vidura.  They dug an underground tunnel from the house to the riverside and escaped.  They roamed around in the jungles and were asleep under a tree exhausted.  Rshi Durvasa appeared and said, “Absence of a Guru is the reason for all your trpubles.  There is Doumya Rshi in the forests.  Please approach him and accept him as your Guru”.  The Pandavas agreed, went in search of Doumya Rshi and soon found him.  They were blessed with meeting and befrieinding Sri Krishna, in the swayamvara mandapam of Draupadi.
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अभ्यासेsप्यसमर्थोsसि मत्कर्मपरमो भव ।
मदर्थमपि कर्माणि कुर्वन्सिद्धिमवाप्स्यसि ॥ १० ॥

If also thou are unable to practise Abhyasa, be thou intent on doing actions for My sake.  Even by doing actions for My case, thou shall attain perfection.
(XII - 10)

This is the uniqueness of Hindu Dharma.  It does not entertain the semetic idea od exclusiveness.  It does not say, ‘This is the only way’.  To accept alternate paths is not a compromise.  There are no easier and tougher paths.  Alternate path is not a suggestion to choose an easier path.  All are same and will lead to Divinity.  Each one has to choose his own path that suits his basic Nature.

‘If you can not practise and follow the path of Yog, perform your actions for Me’ says Shri Krishna.  When work is being done for Him, there is no role for ‘my Buddhi’.  There is no scope for my planning, modifying or avoiding the work.  There is no thought ‘I am doing the work’.  If a government worker feels ‘he is the doer’, he will earn a grieving mind and also the wrath of colleagues.  The work goes on even in his absence and retirement.  The work goes on as per the decisions and directives of the Government.  The one follows these does not lose peace.  The water flowing in a garden has no ‘own plan’.  It has to flow in the path opened by the gardener.  Won’t it be ignorance if the tyre feels, it is taking all the passengers to their destinations.  It has to revolve as per the wish of the driver.  The driver too, does not have any choice of his own.  He has to drive in the path decided by the bus owner, and not an inch more.
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अथैतदप्यशक्तोsसि कर्तुं मद्योगमाश्रितः ।
सर्वकर्मफलत्यागं ततः कुरु यतात्मवान् ॥ ११ ॥

If thou are unable to do even this, then taking refuge in Me, abandon the fruit of all actions, Oh! The self controlled.
(XII - 11)

He is offering an alternative again.  “If it is difficult to give up the sense of ‘doer’ (karthaa bhaava), leave the results of your actions unto Me.  Your role ends with doing the task.  Deciding on what should be its fruit, and whether you should get that or not, is not your business.  Leave that to Me” says Shri Krishna.

He has suggested three paths in the last four verses.  The first was the of Bhakti.  That was a straight and simple path.  ‘Fill up the mind with Love and devote to Him with Shraddha.  The next path He suggested is of Dhyana or Yog.  Here, regular practice of an exercise suggested by a Guru, gradual reign over the mind, ridding the mind of dualities like like-dislike, success-failure, and stabilizing the mind on Him is the way.  The third path suggested is of Karma.  He has suggested two alternatives in this.  Detaching self from Karma or eliminating ‘doer-bhavana, is the first.  The second is to rely on Him, act for Him and detach from the results of actions.

‘Establish perfect mastery over self and give fruits of every action’, He says.  Self restraint is important.  Giving up fruits is impossible otherwise.

‘Every action’, He says.  The obligatory actions as per one’s Varna, Ashram, actions for sustenance of body, and every other action sanctioned by the shastra, are meant by Him, when He says ‘Give up fruits of Every action’.  Giving up fruits does not mean not accepting the fruits or abstaining from actions, but snapping any attachment with the action or with its fruits.

Bhakti is not culitivated through any conscious effort, but evolves on its own.  Love and Shraddha are the investments for Bhakti.  I was with friends on the banks of river Kaveri.  They were enjoying swim in Kaveri.  Not trained in swimming, I was in shallow waters along the bank.  One of the friends said, “Come here.  It is not too deep.  It is my chest level”.  I started walking towards him.  He had duped.  Water was deeper and I started sinking.  He pulled me out and reached me to the bank.  “Why did you lie?” I asked him.  “It was a joke.  You should not have come when I called”, he said.  “You are my friend.  I trusted you and walked towards when you assured and called”.  This attitude can not be cultivated.  It just appears.  There are no ‘whys’ and ‘hows’ in this attitude.  You ask a child to close its eyes.  It will just shut its eyes.  The same suggestion to an adult will generate so many questions.  There are no questions and doubts in Bhakti marg, but only plunging.

One unable to plunge in Bhakti should take up the path of Abhyasa.  There are so many variants in this path.  One must experiment and find a system apt for himself and progress in the path through rigorous and consistent practise.  A milkman approached Shri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa with a request for guidance in meditation.  Shri Ramakrishna advised him to meditate on the stana (milk glands) of a Cow.  The state of ‘no questions and no doubts’ can be reached even by this practice, provided he continues the practice and gains own experiences.

If this too is not possible, then, the path of Karma is the resort.  Performing His tasks for Him is Karma Yog.  As there is a tendency to brand the external symbols and rituals (Pooja, Rudraksha, Mantra recital, marks on the forehead etc.) as Bhakti Yog, so is there a similar tendency to describe the involvement in ‘daily chores’ as Karma Yog.  We often hear brags like, ‘I am on Karma Marga, you see!’ or ‘Oh!  He is a Karma Yogee’, etc.  Not the actions, but detachment from actions, while being in the midst of actions, is Karma Yog.  Actions are His and dissociating from the success or otherwise of those actions is Karma Marga.

The hits, hurts, bruises and pain experienced in worldly life are all to the Ahankara.  If our toe or any other part of body is hit by a stone or the corner of a furniture, there is pain, not much.  If the hit is on a previous wound, the hurt and pain are multifold.  Similarly, in the presence of Ahankara, the impact of hurt and pain is multifold.  In the absence of Ahankara, there is neither seeking of victory nor rejoicing over victory;  there is neither pain nor grief in fall;  there is neither fear of being destroyed nor effort for lasting retention.  Absence of ahankara is known by childlike, unfading energy and enthusiasm.  The Path may be any, demolition of ahankara, disappearance of ‘I’ is must.  And that is the greatest challange.  In Bhakti, it is gone in the first step.  In the path of Karma, it fades away in due course and in the path of Gyaana, in the last step.
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श्रेयो हि ज्ञानमभ्यासाज्ज्ञानाद्ध्यानं विशिष्यते ।
ध्यानात्कर्मफलत्यागस्त्यागाच्छान्तिरनन्तरम् ॥ १२ ॥

Better indeed is knowledge than (blind) Abhyasa;  meditation (with knowledge) is more esteemed than (mere) knowledge;  than meditation, the renunciation of the fruit of action;  peace immediately follows renunciation.
(XII - 12)

He suggested one after another alternatives in the previous four shlokams.  The final alternative suggested by Him is Karma phala tyaaga or giving up the fruits of actions.  In the first three paths, He said, Nivasishyasi Mayyeva or ‘You will live in Me’ (Shlokam 8);  Maamicchaaptum or ‘You seek to reach Me’ (Shlokam 9);  Siddhim avaapsyasi or ‘You will attain greatest Siddhi’ (Shlokam 10); indicating the glorious destinations of those paths.  He merely says, Tatah Kuru Yataatmavaan or ‘Do this Oh! The self-restrained’, while suggesting sacrifice of fruits of actions.  This may provoke us to infer that this path is inferior.  That is not so.  We must choose the path suiting our respective attitude.  Rather, the path suiting our attitude will open to us.  To avoid any misgivings, He is making a special mention of ‘Karma Phala Tyaaga’ in this shlokam.

Mere practise is not enough.  Knowledge is vital and hence higher.  Man has been scrupulously adopting so many types of practices since centuries.  He visits temples;  performs yagyams or fire-obligations;  follows rigorous disciplines;  offers worship;  practises Yogasanas, Pranaayaama;  sits long hours in meditation;  Teertha Yatra or pilgimage, Naama Japa or recitation of names, Bhajan or musical offerings, Pradakshina or going around temple, river, mountains, and so many other practices prevail.  If it does not cause a ripple within, if it does not inspire self purification, any practice is worthless and merely ritualistic.  Knowledge of the texts is definitely higher than such a ritual.

Meditation on Him is higher than knowledge of Him.  Knowledge without direct self experience is waste.  Scriptural knowledge can never offer experience.  A drop of experience is better than an ocean of knowledge.  Reading and listening have to be followed by introspection.  Every thing has an obvious and hidden meaning.  There may also be a deeply buried subtle meaning.  That can be unearthed and grasped only on introspection or meditation.  Hence, meditation is higher than knowledge.

Karma phala tyaaga is higher than meditation.  The term ‘Karma phala Tyaaga’ has been well explained in the 47th verse of chapter II.  The body, senses, mind, Buddhi, wealth, position, fame, status, all those we have got in this world are to be expended towards welfare of the world and never for self gratification or other selfish desires.  All the tasks performed using these are His and are performed only for Him.  The results from these tasks are also His wish and His grace.  Neither attachment with the actions nor aversion to those.  No expectation of a favourable fruit.  Neither attachment nor aversion to the fruits acquired.  Therefore neither joy over ‘favourable’ fruit nor grief over ‘unfavourable’ one.  Where is the scope for burden or stress in such a state?  There arises perfect peace.

Wife and children do not bind.  The attachment one has on them binds.  The job or profession have no power to bind.  The expectations from and attachments with these bind.  I met one of my classmates, after a long gap.  He was a meritorious syudent.  He was running a ‘hardware and networking’ company.  He had a house in an area of the rich men in Nagpur and two de-luxe cars.  Both his sons were students in best academic institutes.  He was obviously doing well.  He looked sad.  I enquiered the reason.  This was his reply.  “I have achieved nothing in my life.  I am a failure”.  I pointed out the marks of his achievements, visible to me.  “Inspite of these achievements, what could be the reason for you to feel otherwise?  I would like you to ponder over this”.  I gave him a sort of homework.  He came in the night with his reply.  “I probably expected to match the performance of Narayanamurthy or Azim Premji.  That should be the reason for my failure feeling.  I have spoilt my health as well as my relationship at home”.

There is a story in Shreemad Bhagawatham (12th Skandham – 9th chapter – 1st and 2nd shlokam).  A gurar bird (must be a smaller variety of vulture) was flying with a piece of meat in its beak.  It was surrounded and followed by crows and hawks.  Those birds wanted to snatch the piece of meat from this bird.  Those birds tried to attack this small bird.  The gurar bird dropped the piece of meat.  All the birds troubling this left her and went for the piece of meat.  The gurar bird settled and relaxed on a nearby tree.  An avdhoot, who saw this said, “You have become my Guru.  Man can not escape troubles and gain peace in this world unless he drops the burden of attachments.  I learnt this from you”.  Karmaphala tyaaga results in perfect peace.

Any path towards Paramaatman, treaded with the right Bhavana, ultimately merges with the path of Bhakti.  Bhavana is discussed in the next verse.
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अद्वेष्टा सर्वभूतानां मैत्रः करुण एव च ।
निर्ममओ निरहङ्कारः समदुःखसुख क्षमी ॥ १३ ॥
सन्तुष्टः सततं योगी यतात्मा दृढनिश्चयः ।
मय्यार्पितमनोबुद्धिर्यो मद्भक्तः स मे प्रियः ॥ १४ ॥

He who hates none, and is friendly and compassionate towards every creature, who is rid of the feelings of ‘me’ and ‘mine’, even-minded in pain and pleasure, forbearing, ever content, steady in meditation, self controlled, and possessed of firm conviction, with mind and Buddhi fixed on Me, is dear to Me.
(XII – 13, 14)

Madbhaktah sa mae priyah: ‘That my bhakta, devotee is my beloved’.  The next eight shlokams elaborate on the bhakta, the bhakta dearest to the Lord.  Who could be the dearest devotee?  The one who worships Him daily, with the choicest flowers;  the one who recites His ‘sahasra naama’ Names regularly and reads texts about Him;  the one who decorates His form with gold, and diamonds and lights thousand silver lamps;  the one, without fail, offers the tastiest, delicious preparations to Him;  the one decorates his forehead with religeous marks, his chest with garlands of bead and goes to pilgrim centers;  No.  No.  These are all external marks.  The inner appearance is more important.  These outer marks may or may not be there.  The emotions, inside, the character is the mark of devotion.  Shri Krishna is more concerned about the ‘within’ in deciding His dearest devotee.  Let us listen to His words.

1.                  Adweshtaa: -  Dwesh means hatred or contempt.  Adweshtaa is one without dwesh.  Dislike is there, only where like is.  Contempt is there only so long as admiration is.  Hatred or aversion remains till desire or attachment is alive.  If we get rid of likes, admiration, attraction, desires and attachments, dislikes, contempt, aversion and contempt will automatically vanish.  We develop and retain strong likes and dislikes, desire and hatred, admiration and contempt for things, places, situations, persons, and experiences.  In food, we like sweet and hence dislike bitter.  We admire white or reddish skin and hence hate black skin.  We seek cool environment and hence do not want hot one and try to avoid (also a form of hate) a non-AC place.  We love ‘welcome and support’ and hence hate opposers and opposition.  We admire the rich as we are attracted to wealth.  Naturally, we hate and insult the poor.  We want to remain youthful and admire and run after glamorous youth icons.  That is why, we tease and make fun of the old.  We hold an idea as dearest and hate an opposite ideology and its supporters.  The ones unaffected by these duals, the ones above these pairs of opposites, is Adweshtaa.

Lokmanya Tilak was sentenced to six years of rigorous imprisonment and was jailed in Mandalay.  He was unaffected by the prison walls and confinement.  He wrote a classic text on Gita, during his stay in the jail.  Adweshta!

Veer Sawarkar was awarded a rigorous, solitary confinement of fifty years in the cruellest of prisons in Andaman.  He suffered the worst brutalities at the hands of British officers.  His hands chained, his legs chained with a heavy steel ball, he was whipped, was made to pull the oil crusher, his brother also imprisoned in the same jail, news of death of his son, as though harshest difficulties united against him.  But, Sawarkar came up with classic patriotic literature and poems during his imprisonment.  He sang Jayostute, Swatantrate Bhagawati...(Oh Bhagawati!  the Devi of Independance) looking in the direction of mainland Bharat.  This song is inspiring and melts down even a hardened heart.  Adweshtaa!

Nelson Mandela went through a ‘twenty six’ years of imprisonment in Robinson islands.  He was in solitary confinement.  He could enjoy an open sky once a month.  He had his food supplied through a slit in the wall.  There was a bucket to be used in place of toilet.  (The British seem to be experts in building the harshest pisons.)  He spent so many years without interacting with a human.  He has not allowed the bitterness to take root in his mind.  His childlike smile is the proof.  Hatred and violence did not emerge in South Africa, though widespread in neighbouring countries like Zimbabwe, Zambia and Mozambique.  Adweshtaa!

2.                 Sarvabhhotaanaam Maitra: - Friendship with all lives.  To seek well being is friendship.  To be friend with the affectionate and favourable, is normal.  It is unique and very special to be friend with all lives, to seek the well being of all.  Friendship can not blossom in a mind where anger, jealousy and vengeance flourish.  Kaushika Rshi is known as Vishwa Mitra or the friend of the whole world.  He was a king.  He developed jealousy for and entered in a competition with sage Vasishtaa.  After years, when his mind was totally rid of anger and jealousy, he became Vishwamitra.  He gifted the Gayatri Mantra, that benefits the whole of humanity.  The Sun is also called Mitra, the friend.  He expresse nothing but the welfare of all lives.  He is the cause and the source for all the essential need of all lives.  1.  Oxygen.  The essential, life giving gas.  Sunlight acts on the green leaves and causes production of oxygen.  2.  Light.  We all like light.  Even the light in the nights provided by the moon, is the gift of the Sun.  Sunlight gives essential vitamins and nourishments for our healthy life.  We know that even grass does not grow in areas denied Sunlight.  3.  Food.  Sunlight is essential for growth of crops, plants and trees.  We must thank the Sun for the food we take.  4.  Energy.  Sun is the source of all the energy in the world.  5.  Water.  There will be no ptable water, if there was no Sun.  The first condition for life to exist is water and that is why scientist, probing for life in other planets, looks for water there.  He gives only the beneficial, that to all, without any reservations or prejudices.  Sarvabhhotaanaam Maitra!

One can be a friend of all, only if he sees the Paramaatmana in all lives.  Sadhu Naamadeva lived around seven centuries ago.  He was an ardent devotee of Panduranga.  He saw Panduranga in all lives and everywhere.  He took anything he got as Panduranga’s Prasad (grace).  He used to live on Bhiksha or alms.  One day, he was offered a dry roti and a cup of ghee, as bhiksha.  He placed the Bhiksha on ground, closed eyes and prayed.  A dog took away the roti.  He chased the dog, caught and affectionately held it in his arms.  He said, “Oh Panduranga!  this dry roti will hurt your gums.  Please give it.  I will apply ghee and feed you”.  So saying, he took out the roti, spread ghee over it and fed it with love.  Sarvabhootaanaam Maitra!

3.                 Karuna: -  Karuna is compassion.  Compassion will spring out from a mind less concerned, less worried about self.  Travelling beyond the physical awareness is essential for compassion.  When one forgets own desires, sensual pleasures, future plans and worries, and becomes one with lives, compassion will bloom in him.  The eyes shed tears as soon as the leg is wounded because ‘I’ is expanded to cover the whole body.  If the ‘I’ could expand beyond the physical frontier and encompass the other lives, hurt to any life will hurt ‘I’.  It was in such a state, Shri Ramalinga Adigalaar was pained on seeing a dried plant.

Shibi, the Emperor, saved a dove from the eagle and offered flesh from his own thigh as compensation to the eagle.  That was due to Karuna.  Prince Siddhartha (before he became Gautama Buddha) nursed and saved the swan hurt by the arrow of a hunter, only out of Karuna.  Karuna is a beautiful emotion of humans.  This can be experienced only if selfishness is subdued.

Shri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa was seated by the side of a paddy field.  He was enjoying the beauty of the lush field.  He was as if immersed in the gentle waving of the tender crops in the breeze.  A horse gallopped through the field, crushing the crop.  Shri Ramakrishna shouted in pain and fainted.  Karuna!

Naamadeva was bathing in ariver.  He saw ascorpion drowning.  He tried to lift it and place on the bank.  It stung him whenhe held it on his palm.  He shook his hand in pain and the scorpion fell back into the waters.  He tried again to save it.  It stung again and fell into the waters once again.  This repeated a couple of times.  An onlooker advised Naamadeva to let the ‘wretched creature’ to drown and die.  “Don’t you see, it stings you everytime you try to save?  Are you a fool?”  “This creature does not want to give up its habit of stinging, even when at the doorstep of death.  Why should I give up my nature of helping?  Karuna!
4.                  Nirmama: - ‘Mama’ is mine.  Nirmama is absence of the thought of ‘mine’.  The small, petty worlds that man creates within this vast world are ‘mama’ or ‘mine’.  He grabs on to and binds self to ‘my country’, ‘my town’, ‘my caste’, ‘my house’ and so many such mines.  Man starts the journey of life with the small ‘mine’ – my body.  As he grows adds his senses, mind, buddhi to his world of mine.  Then, more and more mine are added to his possessions.  It is similar to the mentally deranged on the street accumulating all sorts of rubbish in his bundle.  Man spends his whole life on such accumulations and never realizes that these can never be ‘mine’.  They belong to the world and he is but a temperory visitor to the world and has to leave the world and all the ‘mine’ gathered with so much dedication.  These bond him.  He feels he has held or possessed these.  On the contrary, these hold him and bind him.  The policeman binds the thief with a chain and holds the other end of the chain.  He may feel, he is holding the thief.  But, it is a fact that he is also bound with the same chain and is not free.  He is under bondage so long as he holds the thief.  The cowherd binds the cow with a rope and holds it.  He may feel to possess the cow, but is also bound by the cow.  The cow will not run after him, if let free.  He will run after the cow as he is bound by her.  Only the one who is free from ‘mama’ is liberated.

Shri Ramana Maharshi always used the word ‘it’ while referring to self.  Swami Ramateertha once faced a hostile audience in America and abuses and stones were hurled at him.  On return to his place of stay, he said, “Today, Ram faced a rough audience.  Abuses were showered on him.  He even recieved stones”.  He was talking as if Ram someone else.  These men did not feel even the bodies to be theirs.  Nirmama!

Guru Nanak’s father ran a shop in the town.  He was worried about Nanak’s disinterest in money and worldly things.  He wanted Nanak to handle money and develop an interest in money.  He, once made Nanak to sit in the shop.  A customer came with a demand for 25 measures of groundnut.  Nanak started pouring nuts using the measure and counted Ek, Do, teen.  In Hindi ‘tera’ is for thirteen and ‘tera’ also means ‘yours’.  He counted upto twelve and when he uttered the word ‘tera’, he went into a state of ‘samadhi’.  He repeated ‘tera’ for the next few measures.  The customer was surprised.  “What are you doing?” asked he.  Nanak was in a trance and said, “Sab kucch tera.  Kyaa hai mera?”  (All is yours.  What is mine?)  The spirit of Yagya is similar.  ‘Idam na mama’ (this is not mine) is the Mantra recited while making offerings to fire.  Every bit of this world is Yours.  Nirmama!

Sadhu Ravi Meher was a persian preacher.  He had three sons.  Once, he had gone out for a lecture programme.  All his three sons caught smallpox and died.  His wife hid the dead bodies under a cot.  The sadhu returned in the night.  The wife remained silent when he asked about the children.  He finished his bath, worship and sat for dinner.  He again asked, “where are the childre?  Have they gone to bed earlier today?”  The wife remained silent.  After a while, she said, “The neighbour had come in the noon asking for the utensils we borrowed last week”.  “The utensils are theirs.  You returned or not?”  “You are right.  I returned the utensils”.  After the dinner, he again enquired about the children.  She took him into the room and showed him the three dead bodies under the cot.  He talked on religion and Paramaatman.  Yet, he had not probably grasped the ideas he talked.  He cried, beat his chest, fainted.  He was hysterical.  The wife consoled him and calmly said, “You only said a few minutes back that they took what is theirs.  The chidren are His.  He gave them to us.  Now, He has taken them back.  Is it proper to grieve?”  This is ‘Nirmama’.

5.                 Nirahankaara: -  Aham is ‘me’.  Nirahankara is ‘not me’, absence of ‘me’ feeling.  Man binds self with prakruti and feels ‘It is me’.  He identifies with the body, buddhi, the post he holds, etc. feels these to be ‘me’.  I am beautiful;  I am strong;  I am youthful;  I am intelligent;  I am talented;  I am rich;  I am humble;  I am noble hearted;  I am independent;  I am of helping mind;  I am the owner of huge assets;  I am famous;  I am of superior caste;  I am honest;  I am powerful;  I am a big officer;  I am poor;  I am helpless;  I am ignorant;  I am sick;  Oh!  how many types of ‘I’.  He is jubiliant, if the considered ‘I’ is pleased and is upset if the considered ‘I’ is hurt or insulted.  ‘No one cares for me’;  ‘No one loves me’;  ‘No one listens to me’,  ‘Whom do you this am I’?;  ‘You teaching ME?’;  ‘You will realize My value only after I die’;  ‘None else would have faced so much sufferings as ME’;  ‘When I (with so much intelligence) could not grasp this, how can you (a dud)?’;  these are some of blah blahs of a bloated I.

An egoless state or a state of Nirahankaara is the primary condition for Bhakti or devotion.   Shri Rama’s younger brother Bharata was a monument of Nirahankaara.  He faced so many insults.  He was so much misunderstood.  Yet, he was not disturbed.  Bharata was in his maternal uncle’s country, when his mother sought the two boons from King Dasharatha, one to make Bharata the king and the other to send Shri Rama to the forests for fourteen years.  Mother Kaikeyi thought that Bharata would be pleased and agree to this.  But, she was wrong.  Bharata was misunderstood and wrongly assessed by his mother.  Bharata was asked to return under King’s orders.  When he returned, his other two mothers, the ministers, and the people misunderstood and mistook him to be part of the conspiracy to send Shri Rama away.  They abused and cursed him for no fault of his.  He decided to go the forests to fetch Shri Rama back to Ayodhya.  His intention was now doubted by the boatman Guha and brother Lakshmana.  Bharata was never perturbed by all these.  He placed Shri Rama’s Sandals on the throne and ruled in His name.  He himself lived the life of a rigorous penance in a hut outside Ayodhya for fourteen years.  At the end of fourteen years, Shri Rama sent Shri Anjaneya to test Bharata’s mind.  “If it remains unchanged, we’ll return to Ayodhya.  Otherwise, we’ll stay back in the forests”.  Now, this was the severest test for Bharata’s ‘Nirahankaara’ state.  He was doubted even by his dearest Rama.  All these for a ‘crime’ in no way connected to him.  Anyone with even the slightest ego would have broken down or would have burst out in rage.  But, Bharata was a Muni, a great Bhakta, totally Nirahankaara Bhakta!

6.                 Sama Duhkha Sukha: -  Equi poised in pleasure and pain.  Balanced in both favourable and adverse situations.  One who has always been in misery can possibly bear pain and not get stumbled, but may not be so when faced with pleasure.  Similarly, the one used to plenty and pleasures, may not lose balance in pleasurable situation, but will be disturbed in adverse situation.  To remain the same to both pain and pleasure is ‘sama duhkha sukha’ and is a mark of Bhakti.

Bhakta Tukaram’s wife was delighted.  “Finally, my husband has become responsible to the family needs”, she thought, when she saw him coming with a bundle of sugarcane on his head.  Within a minute, her delight turned into anger.  Bhakta Tukaram was surrounded by children on the street.  Each of them chanted, ‘Vittala Vittala’ and he would respond with a chant, ‘Panduranga Vittala’ and gift each one of them with a sugarcane.  Only one sugarcane remained with him when he reached home.  He gave that to his wife.  She was so enraged that she beat him with same.  The sugarcane broke into four pieces.  “Oh!  Look at the grace of Panduranga.  He has made four pieces of the sugarcane, as there are four lives in the house.  Vittala, Vittala, Hari Hari Vittala”.  He was ecstatic and dancing in joy.  Sama duhkha sukha!

Dayasindhu was a sadhu in Jagannatha Puri.  He used to sing glory of Jagannatha and sustain on Bhiksha or alms.  One day, he chanted, ‘Bhavatee Bhikshaam Dehee’ at the doorstep of a house.  He repeated it thrice as is the practice.  The woman in the house was selfish and short-termed.  She got annoyed and threw abuses at him and also a rag with which she was washing the floor.  Sadhu Dayasindhu was smiling as ever.  He took the rag and returned to the temple.  He washed and cleaned it and made hundred and eight wicks out of it for the lamps.  It was Ekadashi and a special evening in the temple.  He lighted hundred and eight lamps, sang melodious bhajans in the Sannidhi of Lord Jagannatha.  He was in a state of blissful ecstacy.  The women who insulted him was in the temple and was repentant as she realized his greatness.  She humbly bowed at his feet.  He was smiling, as was he when the rag was thrown on him.  Sama duhkha sukha!

Swami Vivekananda learnt about the postponement of the Inter religeous Parliament by three months, after he arrived in America at the end of May.  He had very little money in a land with no acquaintances.  He went to the southern parts of America and stayed in the countryside for three months.  He returned to Chicago on the 9th of September, in time for the conference beginning on the 11th.  His small bundle of clothes was stolen and lost and with it was lost the ‘letter of introduction’ to the organizers of the conference.  He was on the streets on the 9th and 10th of September.  He spent the days roads and the nights in a cement pipe by the side of the road.  There was no way he could enter the conference hall.  He sat under a tree leaving everything to God’s will.  A lady appeared before him and requested him to come to her house.  She arranged for his bath, breakfast and took him to the conference hall.  She introduced Swami Vivekananda to Cardinal Gibbons, the chairman of the conference.  Swami Vivekananda was finally on the stage, with other participants.  On the inaugiral day, he spoke for a mere five minutes.  That was the famous speech beginning with the words, ‘Dear brothers and sisters of America’.  He was instantly famous.  The New York Times wrote, “Swami Vivekananda was undoubtedly the Hero of the conference”.  The richest of Chicago competed with each other to host him.  He was at the residence of one of the richest and most influencial in Chicago on the night of 11th September.  He was honoured with stay in a cosiest room, and served the best food and fruits.  He stared at the dazzling Chicago at night, through the window and was intears.  He remembered the millions of poor deprived of even a single meal a day.  The host found him lying on the floor in the morning.  His eyes were reddish as wept and fainted.  He was on the roads the previous night and on the top of the world the next.  He was unknown person on the 10th night and had become most famous and most sought after on the 11th.  This dramatic change did not stump him.  Sama duhkha sukha!

7.                 Kshamee: -  Kshamee is the one who pardons.  This is and aspect of the pure hearted.  Only the Nirahankaari can forgive.  It is common for human to hit back when the ‘I’ is hurt.  He will wait for the right opportunity to seek revenge.  If he is weak and can not pay back, he will be delighted when his adversary is in trouble.  “Even God could not bear what he did to me.  that is why, he has punished him”.  He will be pleased to pull God also, in his petty game.  His ego will be in full light even when he forgives.  “Poor fellow!  Let me be magnanimous and forgive you”, he will brag.  Only the one whose I is completely subdued, can forgive in real sense.  He is Kshamee.  Forgiving is not mere verbal.  To erase every trace of the hurt caused to self, is forgiving.  When hurt is not remembered, where is the need for ‘hit back’?  There is no need for the act of forgiving either.  Such a person is Kshamee.

During the Mughal rule, not only officers, but also common Muslim delighted in teasing Hindus, especially the Sadhus.  Sadhu Ekanath used to wake up before Sunrise and go to river Godavari for his daily bath.  One day, when he got out of the river after his bath, a Mussalman spat on him.  Ekanath went back to the river, took a dip and returned.  This time the Mussalman threw cow-dung on him.  Ekanatha was not angry and took one more bath.  This went on and on.  Verily, a war was on between love and hate, between forbearance and envy.  Ultimately, love won and hate defeated.  Forbearance won vanquishing envy.  The Mussalman was exhausted and sought Sadhu Ekanath’s pardon.  Ekanath calmly replied, “You have not anything to be apologetic.  It is me, who should thank you.  You have blessed me with so many dips in the Holy river Godavari on this auspeciou day of Ekadashi”.  Kshamee!

8.             Santushta Satatham: - Satatham Santushta is the ‘ever contented, ever joyous.  There is a secret hidden in the word santosha, meaning happiness.  Tosha is content and tushta is the one who is contented, one who is full.  Santosha means total or perfect contentment and that is the word used for happiness.  Where there is complaint, there is sadness.  Happiness is possible only when there is no complaint and there is total contentment.  These are two types of attitudes.  One who is plunged in the worldly life with all its shades has the attitude of finding faults, of complaining, of dissatisfaction.  Hence, he is always tense and sad.  The attitude of a bhakta is of viewing the whole, of contentment, and hence, he is always in a blissful state.

Shri Ravidas, a cobbler and very poor, was a Krishna Bhakta.  Once, a Sadhu visited him in his hut.  Ravidas welcomed him and honoured him with food.  He presented the Sadhu witha pair of new sandals, when he departed.  Th Sadhu was ovewhelmed, at Ravidas’ genuine hospitality.  He said, “Dear Ravidas, you are doing great service to the Sadhus.  I feel your serice should continue unhampered.  It should not stop for want of money.  I wish to give you a special stone, the Parasmani.    It can convert iron into gold, by a mere touch.  Poverty will not peep into your house once again”.  So saying, he touched the cobbler’s stand made of steel and it turned into dazzling gold.  Ravidas’s face turned gloomy.  “How will I ever stich a shoe?” he despaired.  “Why do you grieve?  You can purchase a thousand steel stands with this golden one.  And, why at all should you stich shoes?  Whenever you need money, you can just touch any piece of iron and get any amount of gold.  Now, you can devote more time in Bhakti and service of Sadhu”.  The Sadhu’s words tried to tempt Ravidas.  “No.  I do not need this.  Please take this back.  I remember Shri Krishna in my own small way.  I serve the Sadhus to the extent possible.  The thought on gold and ways to protect it will snatch away Shri Krishna’s memory from me”, said Ravidas.  The Sadhu did not agree and placed the Parasmani stone in the thatched roof and said, “I hide this here.  Whenever you feel like, you can take it and use it for creating wealth”.  The Sadhu returned after a couple of years and was surprised to find Ravidas in the same state of poverty.  “Where is the stone I gave you?” he asked.  “Look at the place where you left it.  It will be there”, replied Ravidas.  The Sadhu was pleasantly surprised.  Here is a man refusing to take a treasure pot at arm’s reach.  “If you had willed, you could have built a grand temple for Shri Krishna and served food to thousands daily and earned a lot of Punya”.  (The illusionary thought of doing greater service to humanity if we could get large amount of money, is a trap.)  “I spend my time apart from shoemaking, in small Pooja and involve in very little service to those at my doorstep.  And I am peaceful in this humble service.  Let me be in this state” said Ravidas.  The Sadhu humbly bowed down and touched his feet.  Saint Ravidas, the Santushta!

9.                 Yogee: -  Ever relating with the Paramaatman.  Always plunged in the thoughts of the Lord.  It does not, mean not in worldly activities.  It does not mean he is divorced from the world and is in seclusion.  He is not attached or stuck to the world.  The taste of the world does linger in his mind.  The vision of the world colour his mind.  We drink Coffee.  It leaves its fragrance within us.  The next day, this fragrance left within us cause our eyes and mind to look for coffee.  The nose, tongue and the mind get excited and pleased at the arrival of coffee.  And are upset and displeased at non-arrival.  The Yogee is engrossed in Paramaatman.  His body consumes coffee.  His tongue touches the coffee.  The coffee does not stir up his interior.  There is no imprint of this intake of coffee within him.  Sant Gyaaneshwar was a parama yogee.  He did the Gita in simple Marathi, named Gyaaneshwari.  His father took up Sannyaasa, returned home and re-entered Grihastaashram (family life) and hence was boycotted by the village.  The childhood of Gyaanesgwar was a period of great distress.  His parents passed away, leaving a younger brother and a sister under his care.  He was barely twelve years of age then.  The village elders humiliated these children and made them suffer for daily food and shelter.  These bitter experiences did leave any impact in Gyaaneshwar’s young Yogee mind.  A perfect Yogee!

10.                 Yataatmaa: -  Yataatmaa is one in perfect control of his body, senses, mind and buddhi.  The mind and Buddhi of a Bhakta, having been offered to the Lord, are already silenced and peaceful.  Hence, there is no need for him to exercise control over these.

11.                 Drudha Nischaya: -  The determined.  Most of us aspire to adhere to Dharma, ‘to the extent possible’.  Conviction that, ‘I will stick to Dharma’ is determination.  ‘I’ll follow Dharma so long there is no trouble’ is convenience and not conviction.  Vibheeshan argued with Ravana on Dharma, but was firm to tread the path of Dharma.  He chose the path of Dharma, in other words, he chose to stand by Shri Ram, only after he was insulted and kicked out by Ravana.

Drudha Nischaya is the firmness, not swaying from chosen path, under any circumstances.  The nine years old Narayan was on the banks of River Godavari, for his evening obligations, when he saw there the ruins of the temple tower, vandalised by the Mughals.  He was deeply anguished.  He offered palmful of water thrice and took a vow to replace the rule which indulged in demolition of temples by a rule which will protect temples.  He entered the temple and stood in front of Anjaneye sannidhi and prayed.  “Oh Anjaneya!  You jumpled acroos the ocean and found Mother Sita, abducted and imprisoned by Ravana.  You killed thousands in Ravana’s army, torched Lanka and demoralized Ravana.  Please give me that kind of physical strength and will power.  The child remained speechless and always in introspective mood after that.  He would say, “I am thinking of the world”, when asked the reason for his silence.  The elders were worried and thought marriage would cure his ‘ailment’.  They fixed a bride for him and started preparations for his marriage.  The day of marriage arrived.  Narayan in his early teens was decorated as the groom and brought to the Mandapam.  The Mantras were recited.  There is a practice of reciting Mangalashtakam before the bondage is finalized.  The word ‘Savadhan’ is repeated eight times in this Mantram.  (Savadhan means ‘be alert’.)  It cautions the bride and the groom about the responsibilities towards each other and other responsibilities in a married life.  Narayan was really alerted by the word.  “Oh Narayana!  What are you about to do?  You are getting trapped.  You have taken a vow to a different life”.  Narayan was reminded of his vow.  He threw the marriage garland, jumped off the marriage platform and started running.  The others were puzzled and ran after him to catch.  His was a speed fuelled by a mission and others could not match.  He jumped into the river Godavari, swam across and disappeared into the forests.  He reappeared as Swami Samartha Ramadas after twelve years, at the end of a severe penance.  He had been blessed by the Darshan of Shri Anjaneya.  He had practised a rigorous physical exercise and his body had become as if it was made of steel.  He roamed around, established Anjaneya temples in every small village and inspired thousands of youth to regular and tough physical exercise.  In fact, his work was laying the foundation for Shivaji’s Independent Hindu Rajya.  He was the spiritual guide of Shivaji Maharaj.  Yes.  He was an emblem of Determination.  Drudha Nischayee Swami Samartha Ramadas!

The will power of the Gurus in Sikh tradition was very high.  The impact of their firmness is visible in the Sikh society till date.  The sixth Guru, Guru Arjan Dev was roasted alive by the Mughal king, Shahjahan, for refusing to convert into Islam.  The ninth Guru, Guru Tegh Bahadur was arrested, by Aurangazeb, along with his three disciples.  He was confined in a small sized cage and tortured to accept Islam.  He refused.  His three disciples were tortured and brutally done to death, in front of him.  One was split into two by running a saw on head.  Bags of cotton were tied all the body of the second disciple and ignited.  The cotton burnt slowly and killed him after long and horrible torture.  The third disciple was placed in an oil pot and fried to death.  Guru Tegh Bahadur was calm and unperturbed.  He was beheaded.  His son and the Tenth Guru, Shri Guru Gobind continued the fight.  His two elder sons were killed in a battle against muslim army.  His younger two sons were arrested and threatend with live burial.  They were merely nine and seven years old.  A wall was built around them and they were asked to accept Islam, everytime the wall rose by a few inches.  They were stubbornly refused to convert, saying, “We are born in a family of Lions and will not be cowed down by lambs”.  They were buried alive, in the wall.  Banda Bairagi took the leadership after Shri Guru Gobind.  He too was arrested and asked to convert.  His body was amputed bit by bit.  His eyes were pierced, his one year old child was killed and his heart thrust into his mouth.  He was brutally mercilessly tortured for 92 days.  He faced death valiantly, but refused to give up Hindu Dharma.  This was the great sikh tradition of Will Power.  The quality dear to Shri Krishna, Drudha Nischaya!

12.                 Mayyaarpita Manah Buddhi: -  Manas and Buddhi surrendered to Me.  Mind surrenders where there is love.  A Bhakta is one who is disinterested in anything else but God.  The Buddhi (the Intellect) surrenders where there is Shraddha.  There is nothing superior or treasurable than The Lord for the Bhakta.  Love and Shraddha for Him are the twin assets of a Bhakta.  Hence, surrender of Mind and Buddhi is easily perfected by a Bhakta.  The Bhakta does not consider mind and buddhi as his own.  When the ‘whole’ is surrendered, the ‘parts’ have no other option.  The great and inspiring poetic creations by Meera, Jayadeva, Tulasidas, Tyagabrahmam, are by absolutely surrendered minds.
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यस्मान्नोद्विजते लोको लोकान्नोद्विजते च यः ।
हर्षामर्षभयोद्वेगैर्मुक्तो यः स च मे प्रियः ॥ १५ ॥

He by whom the world is not agitated, and who cannot be agitated by the world, who is freed from joy, envy, fear and anxiety, - he is dear to Me.
(XII - 15)

Shri Krishna is mentioning two types of incitement;  one inciting many and many inciting one.  Udvega is a stormy mix of fear, hatred, grief, and anger.  It is very short lived emotional burst.  One word, one wordless sign or even a look is enough to incite.  It is potent enough to cloud intellect and thinking.  It destroys discretion.  Hitler incited passionate hatred in the minds of masses.  Lakhs of Jews were eliminated.  Our own young Prime Minister commented, “Some plants will perish if a tree falls” and justified the killings thousands of Sikhs.  I have personally experienced a mob venting deep rooted hatred.  I was new to Chennai and gained acquaintance of Rajasthani traders in Sahukarpet.  They used to celebrate Holi within the four walls of a hall.  The hatred propogated in Tamil Nadu by the Dravidian parties against the Northerners was the reason.  That year, we decided to take out a procession on the streets.  We exchanged colours cautiously.  In spite of our utmost caution, colour powder got sprinkled on a ‘Tamil’.  Within seconds, a mob gathered and started attacking us with everything it could lay hands on, stones, chappals, bottles, Iron rods.  Our group got scattered and ran for life.  I got a nasty and deep cut on my back, by a knife thrown.  Application of colour was not the reason for this violence.  It was a mere spark to ignite the hatred, accumulated over years through the hate-campaign.  Similarly, there are instances of mob inciting an individual.  In the casinos and gambling dens, the player is excited by the crowd to play on.  The WWF shows on some TV channels is also an example of many inciting one.  A timid crowd fulfills its own hidden emotions by gathering behind one and inciting him.  One lacking in confidence hides behind others, trying to gather support for selfish motives.  Such a person is susceptible to incitement by others too.  A person is susceptible to incitement by others, only if fear, hatred, lack of confidence, jealousy, etc have preoccupied his mind.

(13) Not to incite others and (14) Not to be incited by others.  These two are great attributes.  Balance, Purity, Determination, Clarity and Shraddha are essntials for gaining these two qualities.  The actions of a Bhakta do not incite or excite others.  But, the wicked ones nourish hatred for him.  The Bhakta is not responsible for this.  Bhartruhari in his famous Neeti Shatakam has this to say.  “The deer in the grass fields, the fish in waters, and the Bhakta in his contented state of mind live in peace.  But, the hunter, the fisherman and the wicked develop hatred and enmity, unprovoked and unreasonable, towards the deer, fish and the Bhakta respectively”.  (61st).

(15) The Bhakta free from joy, envy, fear and excitement or anxiety is dear to Me.  Harsha is euphoria or jubiliation.  It does not mean that Bhakta is not happy.  He is ever blissful.  He is affected by the sensual and momentous worldly pleasures.

Amarsha is envy developing in mind on seeing someone else rise and prosper.  Worldly things like wealth, fame, status, etc. are the factors for this envy.  Envy does not spare even the persons in spiritual world.  It is acceptable if the progress of others inspires one to work harder.  But, the thought on his ‘growth and higher status’ is bad and unhealthy.  It will cause fall.  The realization that Paramaatman is the Only One and there is nothing else, will help in eliminating envy.

Fear is common to all.  Fear of death is very powerful.  The wise Gyaani may not have other fears.  He too is not exempt fromfear of death.  The troubles developing in body due to long hours of spiritual practice, cause fear in him.  Fears about the well being of family may torture evn the other-wise detached spiritual seeker.  But, the Bhakta lives totally relying on God.  He has surrendered wholly to Him.  He accepts every happening as His grace.  Hence, a Bhakta has no fears or anxiety about anything.  In the sixteenth chapter, Shri Krishna mentions fearlessness as a Divine attribute.

Udvega is the excitement or disturbance rising in the mind.  Not only the other lives, but natural calamities like earthquake, cyclone, fire, etc. may also cause Udvega.  A spiritual seeker may be disturbed at not achieving desired results in his practice.  If reliance on Him is not total and a bit of own effort is alive, the Bhakta is excited.  The burgler breaks into a house with cash and valuables inside.  What will he take if there is nothing inside?  Similarly, a bhakta is without the impurities like likes and dislikes, lack of Shraddha, discontent, etc.  How could the external factors disturb his mind?
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अनपेक्षः शुचिर्दक्ष उदासीनो गतव्यथः ।
सर्वारम्भ परित्यागी यो मद्भक्तः स मे प्रियः ॥ १६ ॥

He who is free from dependence, who is pure, prompt, unconcerned, untroubled, renouncing every undertaking, - he who is thus devoted to Me, is dear to Me.
(XII - 16)

Yo Mad Bhaktah sa mae Priyah: - Shri Krishna elaborates on one more set of qualities in the devotee dearest to Him.

16. Anapeksha: - The one who does not expects.  Should we not expect even the normal, essential needs, for the body’s sustenance?  There is a phenomenon we commonly come across.  One desires and tries passionately.  He does not get.  But, the one not wanting, not in the race, gets.  Bhakta usually may not have other expectations.  Yet, he too may expect the bare essentials for body’s sustenance.  He may expect to get the Grace of God, or the Vision of God.  Not to have even these expectations is Perfect Love.

There was a Sadhu.  The incident that inspired him to become one is interesting.  He joined the court of a king as his counseller after finishing twelve years of Gurukula education.  One day, the princess came to him to clarify.  He looked at her chest area and asked innocently, “What are these two swellings on your chest?”  “These are for production and storage of food for my child, when I bear one” she replied.  He was wonderstruck.  ‘So, He has made arrangements for feeding a yet-to be born child.  He will difinitely take care of me too.  Why should I worry and try to please the King for an unworthy employment?’  He instantly left the palace.  Yet, he wanted to test God.  He decided not make any effort for food.  He went to the forest and hid at the top of a tree.  Day passed and it was night time.  Nothing happened till it was midnight.  A gang of four dacoits came there to partition the day’s loot.  The leader said, “I feel hungry.  Go and look for fruits, if any”.  Two of them went in search of food.  They found a shephard’s food package hung from a tree.  The food was sufficient for four of them.  They were about to start eating, when the leader said, “Do not eat.  This food may be poisoned.  There must be someone who knows our den (meeting place).  He has conspired to kill us and take all the loot.  He must definitely be hiding somewhere around.  Go and find out”.  They found out the youth hiding on the top of a tree.  They pulled him down.  One of them forced the food into his mouth while the others held his hands.  He was joyous at realizing God’s grace and was in tears.  And he become a Sadhu that very second.

Aspiration to be blessed with God’s Vision or Liberation also need not be there.  He knows.  May He act as per His wish.  Who are we to demand?  Love, Perfect Love without any expectation, is the mark of a Bhakta.  Like a flower emitting and spreading scent.  No.  It is wrong to say, it emits or spreads smell.  The flower does not do anything.  It just is.  Smell is its being.  Smell is an expression of its being.  Love is Nature.  It is not an act.  Love is experienced by every one.  If it is restricted to own child, or own relation, it is not Love.  It is attachment with expectation, like trade.

17. Shuchi: - Purity.  Purity, internal and external.  Cleanliness in body, clothes, speech, thoughts, etc.  That is the Nature of a Bhakta.  In the present times, outer cleanliness is considered most important.  It is meant merely for show off.  We avoid white dhoti and go for coloured lungi and jeans, as impurity is not explicitly visible.  Bath is replaced with perfumes and scented powders.  ‘Impurity is OK, but should not be visible to the world.  Many of us put in so much effort to make the outer clothes shining and impressive, but use shabby, torn inner wear.

Clear pronunciation, good choice of words and meaningful speech are indicators of purity in speech.  The speech of a Bhakta, immersed in Love for God, is pure, benevolent.  The most important is purity in mind, the thoughts.  Perfect cleanliness in all the external factors without purity within, is hypocritical.  The interior of a Bhakta is full of Divinity and has no place for impurity.

18. Daksha: - Alert.  One who is watchful in his deed.  One who does not fluctuate from his chosen path.  There is only one deed for every human being.  That is to realize that all the alluring pleasures in the world are mythical and can not be source for happiness.  Alertness in not getting trapped in these is a quality dear to the God.

19. Udaaseena: - Ut means ‘on’.  Aaseena means ‘to sit’.  One seated peacefully, without any worries, is Udaaseena.  One seated on a peak of a mountain can see all the anxious run, furious storm of grief, frenzied jubiliation and all other movements in the town below.  If he sits higher, he may probably see the movement of the whole earth.  Similarly, the Bhakta, seated peacefully over the many ups and downs of life, is dear to the Lord.

20. Gatavyathah: - This is different word for Udaaseena.  One who is never sad and grieving.  Anything may come, may not come.  He is never gloomy and is ear devotee of the Lord.

21. Sarvaarambha Parityaagee: - One who has renounced all undertakings, the start of every undertaking.  Undertakings are initiated with the sole purpose of seeking pleasures and comforts and for gaining the suitable objects.  The purpose may not be explicit at the start of any undertaking.  Efforts are made to hide this selfish purpose behind noble thoughts and glossy words.  One sees a luxury vehicle and is drawn towards it.  He desires to own it.  He says, “I do not seek the comforts.  I am just wondering at man’s wonderful creative ability.  Anyhow, it will be useful to so many, if I purchase one”.  He looks at a beautiful woman and convinces himself that he is merely appreciating beauty.  When he initites a new undertaking for earning wealth, he says, “I do not need wealth at all.  But, so many good, beneficial projects can be run if I earn substantial wealth.  If wealth comes to a good man (like me), the whole town will be benefitted”.  ‘Substantial’ is never defined and hence, wealth earning for self goes on.  A bhakta refuses even to start such ventures and is dear to Him.
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यो न हृष्यति न द्वेष्टि न शोचति न काङ्क्षति ।
शुभाशुभपरित्यागी भक्तिमान्यः स मे प्रियः ॥ १७ ॥

He neither rejoices, nor hates, nor grieves, nor desires, renouncing good and evil, full of devotion, he is dear to Me.
(XII - 17)

22-25. Yo na hrushyati, na shochati:  He does not rejoice nor does he grieve.  That does not mean he is inert, lifeless like a stone.  The basis for happiness and sorrow is likes and contempts.  happy if desired one is got and disliked one is not; and sad if if liked one is lost or hated one is got.  This is common man’s attitude.  If there is nothing to be expected and nothing to be hated, there is neither happiness nor sorrow.  Night falls and there is expectation for light.  If light is on, there is happiness and if not, sadness and worry.  In day light, there being the Sun, all these four, happiness, hate, expectation and grief, are absent.  If one is showing his back to the God and facing the world, there is happiness, grief, expectation and hate.  One who has taken the plunge in God’s light has neither happiness, nor sorrow, nor expectation, nor hate.

26. Shubhaashubha Parityaagee: - He resorts to neither unholy acts nor holy or pious acts.  It does not mean he has given up these acts.  More than doing or avoiding the acts, he does not hold prejudice against or bias towards these acts.  He neither hates unholy acts, nor is he attached to holy ones.  He is in actions without any attachment or bondage with those.  In such a state, he does not do even while doing.
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समः शत्रौ च मित्रे च तथा मानापमानयोः ।
शीतोष्णसुखदुःखेषु समः सङ्गविवर्जितः ॥ १८ ॥
तुल्यनिन्दास्तुतिर्मौनी सन्तुष्टो येन केनचित् ।
अनिकेतः स्थिरमतिर्भक्तिमान्मे प्रियो नरः ॥ १९ ॥

He who is the same to friend and foe, and also in honour and dishonour;  who is the same in heat and cold, and in pleasure and pain;  who is free from attachment;  to whom censure and praise are equal;  who is silent, content with anything, homeless, steady-minded, full of devotion, - that man is dear to Me.
(XII – 18, 19)

A devotee is dear to the Paramaatman when equilibrium, sense of balance develops in him.  Equilibrium so developed reflects in all actions and interactions.  Yet, Shri Krishna takes up in detail various situations where equilibrium is to be attained.  27.  A friend is one who acts favourably, with our well-being in mind, and soothing to our minds.  The one who acts in contrary, unfavourably, against our well-being, disliked by our minds, is an adversary.  Only humans are being discussed here.  The temple priest performs worship of the ‘Idol’ atleast five times a day.  Is he dear to the Lord?  Yes, if he is equal and balanced in his interactions with men.  Is he the same when a minister (who can do favours) visits the temple and a richkshaw-puller visits.  Is he the same to one who places rupee notes in the plate and one who offers coins?  A devotee is expected to be equal in relation, not merely with the unconnected men, but also with friends and adversaries.

28.  Maana is an experience that stimulates Ahankara.  Apamaana is that which injures Ahankara.  If one regards self as someone of importance, he develops ahankara.  One for whom there is nothing else other than Paramaatman, one who has surrendered to Him, has no Maana and Apamaana.

29. Cold and warmth, within limits, are comfortable to the body and painful or discomfort if beyond limits.  One who is equal in both the situations need not be with insensitive skin.  His mind does neither relish nor dislikes these situations.  He does not seek one and reject the other.  In fact, his mind is unconcerned and fails to register these experiences.

30. Experience soothing to the manas is Sukha and uncomfortable to the manas is Duhkha.  Sukha and duhkha are only for those who seek worldly objects, only for those whose manas is directed towards the senses.  To walk a distance is duhkha.  To travel the distance in a vehicle is sukha.  To travel in a crowded vehicle is duhkha.  To travel alone in an AC vehicle is sukha.  If one can eat his favourite items, it is sukha.  If he has to eat whatever is thrown at him, it is duhkha.  If one can roam around freely, it is sukha.  If restrictions are imposed, then it is duhkha.  When there is preferrance, when there is an effort to avoid one seek another, the inner equi-poise is disturbed.  To remain unconcerned at anything that comes, is equilibrium.  What is sukha and what is duhkha for the one who has turned away from the world and turned his sight towards the Paramaatman?  None of the worldly objects can give him either sukha or duhkha.  31.  The detached one, living in this world like a lotus-petal, is dear to the Paramaatman.

32. To be appreciated is fame and its opposite is ridicule.  Man has an inherent fear of being destroyed and reduced to nothing.  Fear of death is a similar one.  He seeks fame to establish self permanently in others’ minds and hence in this world.  (A devotee engaged in spiritual practices reveals his experiences only with an intent of acquiring fame.)  On the contrary, he feels as if he is being destroyed when subjected to ridicule.  There are a few who resort to suicide on being ridiculed as they cease to see any purpose in living.  Shri Krishna performed His Leela in Brindavan and was the cynosure of all eyes there.  He was appreciated and admired when He vanquished Kamsa and set right the governance in Mathura.  He was ridiculed and mocked at, when He fled from Mathura and established a new state in Dwarika, when Mathura faced continuous onslaughts by Jarasandha and his army.  He was abused and accused of meanness and wickedness by Shishupala and Jarasandha, in the court of Yudhishthira.  Shri Krishna was perturbed neither by fame and appreciation nor by ridicule and accusation.  He remained calm.  One who is same to both fame and ridicule is dear to Him.

33. Mouni: - Mouni is one who is silent.  Not talking is not Silence.  No talking can be attained through practise or can also be the effect of an ailment.  Tsunami waves are caused by tremours under the sea thousands of kilometers away.  Talk is the effect of thoughts arising  deep within.  Mounam or silence is total absence of tremours within.  Attachment with the world and developments therein causes thought waves within while Seeking the Paramaatman silences.  Mounam results when the Paramaatman fills up the inner world.  The mouni is dear to Me.

34. Santushta: - Contented.  It has been already explained.  Enakenachit is a unique phrase.  Unconcerned with the ways of the world.  He is full within that he is not interested in and is not disturbed by developments in the world around.

35. Aniketa: - Aniketa is ‘shelter-less’.  Does not mean he is on the road.  A subhashitam says ‘Udaara Charitaanaam tu Vasudhaiva Kutumbhakam’.  The whole world is home or family to a broad minded person.  There is another subhashitam which says, ‘Swadesho Bhuvanatrayam’, or all the three worlds are own village.  When the whole world, nay all the three worlds, are waiting to be his home, why squeeze self into a small piece of land calling it ‘my house’?  When the Paramaatman Himself is ready to embrace him, why cling on to petty things calling those ‘mine’?  One with no ‘own’ house is very dear to the Paramaatman.

36. Sthiramathih: - One with firm, stable Buddhi.  He is the same as the sthitapragnya, discussed in detail in the second chapter.  Detached one, unconcerned one can be sthiramathi.  One desirous of gaining sukha from worldly objects can not be detached (II - 44).  Even the knowledge that the world is an illusion may not erase attachment.  We know well that the cinema is a mere shadow on a screen.  That does not cause detachment.  We see people weeping, laughing, applauding in a cinema hall.  Devotion to the Parama will not stabilize buddhi, so long as the attachment with the world remains.  The moment attachment is gone, Buddhi is stabilized, due to the realization that ‘Only Parama is’ (II-41).  The one with stable-buddhi is dear to the Parmaatman.
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ये तु धर्म्यामृतमिदं यथोक्तं पर्युपासते ।
श्रद्द्धाना मत्परमा भक्तास्तेsतीव मे प्रियाः ॥ २० ॥

And they who follow this Immortal Dharma, as described above, endued with Shraddha, regarding Me as the Supreme Goal, and devoted, - they are exceedingly dear to Me.
(XII - 20)

Elaboration on Bhakti Yog concludes with this shlokam.  Shri Krishna mentions three important aspects here.  Shraddha is the basis for Bhakti Yog.  There can not be Bhakti in absence of Shraddha.  The goal of Bhakti is Paramaatman.  Nothing else, incuding special, extra-ordinary powers or worldly comforts and affluence can be the purpose of Bhakti.  The third aspect is that mere knowing is not enough.  Practising the knowledge is more important.  The devotee who tries in this direction is My most beloved devotee.  In the previous seven shlokams, He mentions the devotees who have attained Bhakti Yog and says they are dear to Me.  In this concluding shlokam, He is mentioning the childlike devotee trying to take the first step on the path of Bhakti.  The other children, of course, are dear to Me.  But, this Child is Most Beloved.

In the shlokams 13 to 19, Shri Krishna repeats five times the phrase ‘he is my dear devotee’ (Shlokam 14, 15, 16, 17 and 19).  He has mentioned 36 bhavanas and says the one with these is dear to Me.  Does He expect all the 36 in one?  Shri Krishna mentions the Bhavana dear to Him in five groups.  The devotee needs to adopt one of these.  Otherwise, He would not have repeated some of the Bhavanas.  [Santushta appears twice (14th and 19th).  ‘One in whom the pairs like desire-hate, happiness-grief are absent’ has been mentioned using different terms, in all the five parts.  It is termed ‘Adweshta (no hatred), Nirmama (no attachment) and Sama duhkha-sukha (same in pleasure and pain)’ in the 13-14th;  ‘Harsha amarsha Bhaya Udvega Mukta’ in 15th;  in 16th, He uses the terms ‘Anapeksha (without expectation), Udaaseena (unconcerned), and Gatavyatha (beyond grief)’;  It is ‘na hrushyati na dweshti na shochati na kaankshati’ in the 17th;  In the 19th shlokam, He says, ‘Sanga vivarjitha (One who has dissolved attachment) sheetoshna sukhaduhkheshu sama (same in hot and cold, pain and pleasure)’.  The devotee in whom one of these five groups of Bhavan is present in total, dear to the Paramaatman.

When we analyse the bhavanas, we realize that in Bhakti the core issue, the most essential one is to eradicate attachment and hatred, to establish an equi-poise in sight.  This status is achieved through practise in the Yoga-marga.  The same is attained in Bhakti-marga upon the realization that ‘He is the only One’ and there is nothing else.
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तत्सदिति श्रीमद्भगवद्गीतासूपनिषत्सु ब्रह्म विद्यायां योगशास्त्रे श्री कृष्णार्जुन संवादे 'भक्ति योगो नाम’ द्वादशोsध्यायः ॥

Thus concludes ‘Bhakti Yog’, the twelfth chapter in the grand dialogue between Shree Krishna and Arjuna, called the Shreemad Bhagawad Geetha, which is verily an Upanishad, elaborating on ‘The Divine Knowledge’ and also describing the ‘Way to Godhood’.
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